| Handshakes and Hugs - article by Joel Hempel
Walking into the reception area at church on Sunday morning, I see people greeting one another with smiles, handshakes, and holy hugs. In the foyer, before entering the sanctuary, there is laughter, warm greetings, and catching up with each other on the week’s events. Sometimes, it gets a little loud for those who may want to meditate before worship begins, but for the most part, all of the handshakes and hugs are a commentary on the genuine love and enjoyment we have for one another. Handshakes and hugs, why are they so important to the health and well-being of a congregation? Let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another . . . Hebrews 10:24-25 Among Christians, you can’t get enough handshakes and holy hugs. Handshakes and hugs represent recognition and friendship, love and respect, belonging and acceptance. Of course, not everyone is comfortable embracing- even if it is sacred and respectable. But there is one embrace we are wise not to resist. The most memorable embrace in the New Testament is between the prodigal son returning home and his longsuffering, forgiving father (Luke 15:11-32). And he [the son] arose and came to his father. But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and felt compassion, and ran and embraced him and kissed him (Luke 15:20). Think about it from the perspective of the prodigal: Who is the person you love the most in life? Now think about the most flagrant and intimately offensive behavior you could inflict that would violate the trust and personhood of this loved one. Sit with that thought for a while. Now, find the courage to do what every prodigal is mercifully invited to do. Recognize the foolishness of your betrayal and turn your face toward home. Let the sorrow and the fear wash over you. Don’t hesitate. Start walking and rehearsing your confession. I am so sorry. I have sinned . . . Are you ready? Get ready! You are about to receive an embrace that will last for eternity because waiting for you is ONE who is neither angry nor vengeful. Holy hugs and sincere handshakes are life-affirming and even life-giving when offered with affection and genuine humility from other grace-rich prodigals in the community of believers. | 
